FEVER deeply believes that a good first impression and good communication skills are the keys to a successful date. Beside appearance, please also pay attention to your words and attitude. Thus we have come up with some basic tips below to help you increase the success rate.
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We advise men to dress smart casual. You are not going to work so don't bring out the work suit and tie. Also do not go the other extreme and dress in a t-shirt, shorts and sandals, unless you are headed to an outdoors place where it is suitable.
Finding true love can sometimes be a chance game. The more people you meet, the higher the chance of finding a potential partner.
Being caring and attentive is crucial – and it comes from simple gestures like opening the door, helping her carry heavy things, ordering drinks, and making sure that she gets home safe and sound. Those actions will definitely score you bonus points.
Take a shower before events, and use a little cologne or deodorant. In addition, shave well and set your hair to attract girls.
Dresses and heels can show women's shape. However, do not dress too skimpily, as you are going on a date but not to the nightclub.
Before a date, have some topics or thoughts in mind for conversation, such as but not limited to hobbies, movies or some travel experiences. It may be wise to avoid sensitive topics like religion or politics on a first date. Leave room for the other person to speak and be open. Sharing more about yourself breaks the ice faster and avoids long awkward pauses.
Arrive on time to all events and dates. Lateness in general is a bad habit to have and may give others a bad impression of you.
When introducing yourself, don't keep talking your job for too long unless your job is very interesting. Do not speak in a condescending tone and make sure to leave room for the other person to respond. Things you could talk about besides the usual are your hobbies and interests, fitness and health, etc.
Try not to overdress by adorning too much fancy clothing or excessive jewelry. Simplicity is often enough.
Even if you feel unhappy, do not have it show. You definitely do not want to sit at any date by yourself without talking to anyone, looking down at your phone. You will seem unapproachable to others. Instead, remain polite and respectful to anyone who you may talk to.
There are questions that are irrelevant and may make others feel uncomfortable. For example 'Is it your first time to join speed dating'.
Put on a smile even if you're feeling bored or tired. It's not only a sign of good manners, but it also gives a good impression to others.
Men have strong ego, so don’t be quick to criticize or point out his every fault. Try to get to know him better, he may attract you finally.
Not everyone feels comfortable digging into their past, especially when it comes to previous relationships. Besides, such topics aren’t exactly appropriate for first time meetings. You’re not trying to get acquainted with the person's past, but the person himself.
Happy girls are the most attractive. Your dazzling smile could be all it takes to send others falling for you.
Pay attention to your tone, make eye contact and use appropriate body language. Try to stay at ease and behave naturally.
Reading a woman’s thoughts is no easy task, so don’t expect to achieve that on a first date. In a conversation, nod at appropriate times to show that you agree with what she is saying and that you’re listening. Making comments and responses is also a sign of respect.
During speed dating, some people introduce themselves in the same exact way. Try to talk different topics with different people.
Do not focus on too many targets in an event. Instead, you should just focus on the people who you are most interested in.
Important to be gentle and considerate even you are normally impulsive. This will make you more approachable.
